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10 | When Success Becomes Too Costly


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In this episode of the RenewHer Podcast, I sit down with Julie Cober — executive leadership coach, former corporate CHRO, bestselling author, and founder of the Legacy Leadership Academy. After nearly three decades in senior HR roles, Julie realized that while she loved helping others, the corporate environment was no longer the right container for her. Feeling out of alignment, combined with stress-related health issues and her husband’s cancer diagnosis, she made the courageous decision to leave corporate life at 52 and embrace a bold second act.

Julie now helps high-performing women redefine success, build careers and businesses that light them up, and navigate midlife transitions with courage and clarity. She shares insights on coaching, mindset shifts, identity, and the “be, do, have” approach that accelerates growth. Julie reframes reinvention as remembering your true self and offers practical guidance for women ready to trust themselves, create change, and transform their lives.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why engaging a coach early can transform your transition, and how to choose the right one

  • How midlife can be a powerful season for purpose, alignment, and self-expression

  • The “be, do, have” mindset and how being the person you want to be first drives results

  • Why reinvention is often remembering who you truly are

  • How inner work and alignment positively impact relationships, career, and life

  • Practical steps for navigating fear, doubt, and the inner critic during change

  • The importance of support, reflection, and intentionality in creating sustainable transformation
  • If you’re contemplating a career pivot, navigating stress, or ready to create a life that truly fits who you are, this conversation is full of insight, encouragement, and actionable guidance.

    0:00 - Introduction

    0:54 - Meet Julie Cober

    4:37 - The Perfect Corporate Trajectory

    8:41 - The Hidden Cost of Success

    16:37 - 2009: When Everything Changed

    25:43 - The Panic Attack

    30:50 - The Breaking Point

    37:54 - Planning the Exit Strategy

    44:23 - First Year Identity Crisis

    49:43 - Why Midlife Women Are Waking Up

    53:43 - The Be-Do-Have Leadership Model

    58:03 - Remembering Who You Are

    1:01:07 - Advice for Women Feeling Trapped

    1:05:00 - How to Connect with Julie

    Connect with Julie Cober
    Website / Coaching: https://www.juliecober.com 
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliecober/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/julie.cober.5
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliecobercoaching/
    Newsletter: https://www.juliecober.com 

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    RenewHerBy Genell Lemley