The Art of Approach Podcast

#10 - Where do you meet amazing women in your town? What's the right time to approach?


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In this episode, we shift our perspective to explore dating advice and optimal places to meet women, urging listeners to broaden interests and utilize platforms like Meetup.com. Advocating for authenticity, we debunk the myth of a perfect time for approaching women, sharing real-life examples and emphasizing empathy. Our experiences in approaching strangers in the park and group meetups are recounted, highlighting the importance of setting goals and staying focused. We delve into the dynamics of approaching women in various scenarios, caution against over-reliance on dating apps, and explore the intersection of art in society, addressing challenges faced by artists and contemplating the future of artistic expression and authenticity in shaping culture.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction

01:20

Reviewing Dating Advice

02:16

Best Places to Meet Women

03:43

Opening Your Mind to New Interests

04:41

Using Meetup.com to Meet Women

05:25

Finding Women in Specific Environments

06:04

Feminine Restaurants and Coffee Shops

07:07

Social Sporting Events

08:07

Using Dating Apps as a Supplement

09:21

The Illusion of a Perfect Time

10:36

The Rules of Approaching a Woman

11:20

The Importance of Taking Action

12:20

Creating the Perfect Time

13:23

The Myth of a Perfect Time

14:16

Handling Unexpected Situations

15:07

Authenticity in Interactions

18:48

The Role of Rules and Authenticity

20:09

Creating a Space for Authenticity

23:22

Real-Life Examples of Authentic Approaches

26:46

Empathy for Women in Approaches

28:24

The Importance of Familiar Energy

29:22

Showing Your Real Self

29:54

Recap of Meetup Group

30:03

Approaching Strangers in the Park

30:33

Sharing Stories and Goals

31:28

Overcoming Resistance and Making Approaches

32:23

Making Genuine Connections

33:18

Approaching Women with Boyfriends

34:04

Approaching with Different Intentions

35:13

Stepping Out of Comfort Zones

36:15

The Exhaustion of Approaching Strangers

37:21

Navigating Approaches and Personal Boundaries

38:09

The Excitement and Vulnerability of Approaching

39:25

The Thrill of the Unknown

40:36

The Comparison to Grand Theft Auto

41:13

The Rush of Approaching

43:25

Managing Highs and Lows

45:08

Riding the Highs of Approaches

46:16

Building Sandcastles and Expectations

48:15

Being Present and Avoiding Objectification

49:25

Approaching Women on the Phone

52:42

Approaching Women Who Are Walking

56:04

Approaching Women Who Are Running

58:39

Approaching Women on the Phone

59:22

Being Mindful of Facial Expressions

05:00

The Importance of Art in Society

15:00

The Role of Artists in Shaping Culture

25:00

Challenges Faced by Artists

35:00

The Business Side of Art

45:00

Artistic Expression and Authenticity

55:00

The Future of Art

01:00:00

Closing Remarks

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The Art of Approach PodcastBy Tim Bray and Will Mulvaney