We all know getting back out there could be scary...but getting back out there once you’ve raised your standards ??? Scary can quickly turn into frustrating. Settling is not a term that’s in your vocabulary anymore and you're SPRINTING from the red flags. May talks about her struggle in getting back out there after the bar has been raised. There are pros and cons to this new found wisdom, and not all of it is easy or fun to go through. Though one thing is for certain, the wait will be worth it !