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11. How to Fix Communication Problems in Relationships (Without More Fights!) | REDDIT STORIES


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Ever had a conversation go south because of how you said something—rather than what you actually meant? In this episode, we break down the top communication mistakes couples make, why tone and wording matter more than you think, and how to reword your message to avoid unnecessary fights.

Amy and Blair analyze real-life relationship dilemmas from Reddit, including:

  • When your partner says something that unintentionally stings.
  • How to repair hurt feelings without making things worse.
  • Why some phrases trigger defensiveness—and how to say them better.

Plus, they share an at-home date night challenge that will help you break out of routine and reconnect, no babysitter needed!


🔹 Key Topics:

  • The biggest communication mistakes that cause relationship tension
  • Why “It’s not what you said, it’s how you said it” is more than a cliché
  • How to express frustration without making your partner feel attacked
  • A simple date night trick that strengthens connection at home
  • How small changes in tone and wording can transform your relationship


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🎧 Listen now and start fixing your communication habits today!

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Timestamps

00:00 - Introduction & Why Communication Fails in Relationships
01:28 - The At-Home Date Night Challenge (No Babysitter Needed!)
06:10 - Why Small Wording Changes Can Save Your Relationship
12:22 - “My Partner Said Something That Hurt—Now What?”
19:47 - How to Fix Communication Gaps in Your Marriage
26:31 - What to Do If Your Partner Thinks You’re Boring
33:42 - The Dangerous “Best Husband” Comment & Why It Stung
39:57 - How to Rebuild Trust After Saying the Wrong Thing
45:28 - The Difference Between Passionate Love & Lasting Love
53:37 - Wrap-Up & How to Improve Communication Every Day

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