(Mild Adult Language) On the surface, John and I couldn’t be more different from each other. John is a 24-year-old single gay guy living in Chicago. I’m a church-going, married mom of 3 living in the south. John was a guide on the architecture tour our family took during our tip to Chicago. Within literally a minute of meeting him, I invited him on the show. I was nervous he may think I was strange for being so forthright but John said "yes". We met in the Langham Hotel the next day and talked and talked.