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114. Everyone Believes in You… Except You.
You can have a partner who says, “You’d crush it.”
Friends who swear you’re wildly talented.
A boss who calls you irreplaceable.
And still lie awake on Sunday night thinking,
“Yeah… but what if I’m not actually that capable?”
In this episode of Simply Own It, I’m sharing the Sunday night that changed everything for me — the night my husband stopped reassuring me and said, “This is the last time we’re having this conversation.”
Because here’s the uncomfortable truth:
No amount of validation will ever make up for the lack of belief you have in yourself.
We’re talking about:
Why encouragement only works for about twelve minutes
How asking “Do you really think I can?” can secretly be avoidance
The identity shift that has to happen before you leave the job, grow the business, or go all in
And the story of my client who went from crying in the parking lot before work… to winning the most prestigious award in her industry and landing the biggest contract of her career
If you’ve been collecting praise but still playing small…
If you’re secretly waiting for one more person to tell you it’s safe…
If you keep brushing off compliments with “They’re just being nice”…
This episode will feel personal.
Validation feels good.
Belief changes behavior.
And behavior? That’s what builds the life you keep asking everyone else if you’re allowed to have.
CONNECT WITH KELLY:
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By Kelly McInteeYou can have a partner who says, “You’d crush it.”
Friends who swear you’re wildly talented.
A boss who calls you irreplaceable.
And still lie awake on Sunday night thinking,
“Yeah… but what if I’m not actually that capable?”
In this episode of Simply Own It, I’m sharing the Sunday night that changed everything for me — the night my husband stopped reassuring me and said, “This is the last time we’re having this conversation.”
Because here’s the uncomfortable truth:
No amount of validation will ever make up for the lack of belief you have in yourself.
We’re talking about:
Why encouragement only works for about twelve minutes
How asking “Do you really think I can?” can secretly be avoidance
The identity shift that has to happen before you leave the job, grow the business, or go all in
And the story of my client who went from crying in the parking lot before work… to winning the most prestigious award in her industry and landing the biggest contract of her career
If you’ve been collecting praise but still playing small…
If you’re secretly waiting for one more person to tell you it’s safe…
If you keep brushing off compliments with “They’re just being nice”…
This episode will feel personal.
Validation feels good.
Belief changes behavior.
And behavior? That’s what builds the life you keep asking everyone else if you’re allowed to have.
CONNECT WITH KELLY:
Register for SOLD
FREE: Own Who You Are Code #1 Own Who You Are
Follow on Instagram or LinkedIn