Silence makes you the enemy/shaming circlesSurvival of the shameless / consequences of shame is gonewe don't know any better - so we just do itthe Abilene paradox/anything is better than what you have nowcreative destruction vs conserve and protectdoes travel really broaden the mind / depends on the interactionare you seeing things or meeting people?SF has the big city attitude / social gatheringsyou need to interact with people / can you become an extrovertart is challenging/do you risk taking on vacationa law-abiding ctizen / memory is malleablethe virtual is no different than the realtravel without going to hotels/sleeping in your carno RV required / camping / shared bathroomsmgtow reaction videos to tiktok girlsits there just hard to move / pigeonholed into categorieswe are used to seeing people in a certain wayliterally: wear a different hat / conveys credibilitycan you learn to be an extrovert / I is I and E is E