In this video/podcast, I’m joined by special guest Jolene Clifford… my girlfriend! We talk about fear of the friendzone, and how this hinders men’s sexual power.

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Exerpt:

So the topic of today is men fear of the friendzone is hindering your true sexual power.

And so I'm going to kind of, I'm basically going to say like, what I think about this, and then maybe you can give me what you think. Okay, so. So here's the thing. So it's good for men to be aware of the concept of the friendzone. Because, because what some guys do is they they tried to use being a friend is a backdoor to getting sex. And so the idea, and you know, I've gone back and forth on whether I even like to talk about the friendzone as a real thing, because, because the thing about it is that like, on one hand, being friends with a woman is not a bad thing. On the other hand, there are guys who defeat themselves by

trying to gain sexual access with a woman they're interested in. But they're not like, they're not like being forthright enough to come out and say what they actually want. And so they're kind of using friendship as a backdoor to it. And then when it doesn't happen, they get like mad about it, right. So this is self defeating in many different ways, and for many different reasons. And so my way of thinking about this is sometimes men, like in talking about the friendzone, they swing the pendulum too far. So some men are really afraid of being just friends with a girl to the point where they will make it weird in their pursuit of sex. And so, and actually, that's kind of the point is that pursuing sex is not the goal. Pursuing excellence is the goal and chasing your purpose is the goal. And then spending time with high-quality women should be a byproduct of that process. And so when you make it all about chasing sex, and you make it all about trying to get laid, what you're actually doing is you're focusing on something that is going to take away from your power. Because actually, what you're doing is you're giving all the power to you're giving all your power away to other people when you actually own the Patrizio here.