How do you fight in marriage without actually fighting?

In this honest and hilarious episode, Sarah and Wes get real about communication, conflict, and how 25 years of marriage—and six kids—have totally changed the way they work through tough moments (including who gets the blanket 🛏️).

They explore:

How to avoid turning every disagreement into a war

Why staying quiet can sometimes be the most loving response

How NOT to involve friends in your marriage drama

What it means to choose each other again and again—even on the hard days

You’ll laugh. You’ll feel seen. You might even stop stealing the covers. 😉

Listen in if you’ve ever...

Shut down instead of speaking up

Needed to win an argument (even a dumb one)

Felt emotionally misunderstood in your relationship

Wished your partner could just get you without the drama

🎙️ This is real-life, real-marriage wisdom—with love, humor, and a whole lot of grace. 

💬 Have a funny fight story or moment of growth? DM us @sarahinoil5 or leave a review with your takeaway from the episode—we LOVE hearing from you. 

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