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💡 Key Takeaways:

• If your child melts down over getting dressed, avoids homework, or can’t stick with a simple routine—it’s not defiance or laziness. Their brain might be overwhelmed by the steps we’re asking them to take.
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• Many kids are expected to follow plans or routines before they’re ready—because no one has helped them with the basics their brain needs first.
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• Before kids can follow a list or stay focused, they need help with skills like noticing what’s happening around them, managing distractions, and stopping themselves from going off track.
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• When we slow things down and meet them at the step they can handle, they feel more successful—and that’s when real progress begins.
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• Your child isn’t failing. They just need support that matches how their brain works.

⏱️ Episode Highlights & Timestamps:

• [00:01:15] Why even adults struggle with attention—and how screens play a role
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• [00:06:40] Real-life examples of attention struggles and how they affect daily routines
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• [00:08:15] Introducing the fire metaphor: Kindling, logs, and flames of executive functioning
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• [00:10:20] The four foundational skills that must come before planning
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• [00:13:10] Why giving your child a “beautiful visual schedule” might still lead to meltdowns
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• [00:14:35] How skipping steps on the ladder causes overwhelm, shutdowns, and feelings of failure
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• [00:16:00] The hidden complexity of getting dressed—and why it’s not just one task
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• [00:18:45] How brain maturation and scaffolding work together over time
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📚 Resources Mentioned:

• Want to better understand your child’s executive functioning challenges?
• Start with the Kids With Big Emotions Self-Assessment:
• 👉 https://andiclark.com/assessment
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Book a free 30-minute call to see if 1:1 coaching is the right fit for your family:

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