"If I had known about this .... I would not have married you" is something that comes up in a mixed faith marriage after a faith transition.

In this mastermind panel discussion Suzette Halterman, Chris Rich and myself discuss this phrase.

We talk about :

-Our own personal experience with this kind of phrase

- When it might be a valid and important part of communication

-How much conscious choice we exercise when choosing our spouse

-How to choose your spouse now if that is the right decision