CONTENT WARNING: suicidal ideation, attempts & passive suicidality

Most conversations about mental health tiptoe around the passive side of suicidality, but Olivia Meyer and I are here to blow the lid off that silence. When surviving multiple suicide attempts, you realize it's not just about wanting to die, sometimes it’s just about wanting the pain to stop, and nobody talks about that. You’ll discover how passive suicidality impacts attempt survivors long after the scars fade, and why society’s obsession with "the dramatic" leaves countless suffering in the shadows. Olivia, a survivor herself, shares her raw journey from trauma to recovery, breaking down the myths around attempts, attention, and validation. I dive into the overwhelming weight of societal stigma, the toll on first responders and youth workers, and how social media has turned vulnerability into a desensitized spectacle. We break down why mental health in the post-pandemic era still feels out of reach: especially for those whose struggles don’t make for a “good story”, plus, honest tips for starting real, judgment-free conversations about the unseen battles. If you or someone you love is managing mental health or passive suicidal thoughts, please call or text 988 in both the US & Canada.