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Your Past Does Not Define Your Future With Vicky Poole

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Vicky's Bio:

As a child, I was always put in dresses and told what a “girl” should be and what could do.

I was in my 30's before I realised that I can be:

* a girl and play rugby.

* comfortable in uncomfortable situations.

* be loved by others for everything that I am, as I am.

I grew up liking guys and girls at a time when that was NOT accepted. I had body dysmorphia gifted to me on a plate because what I wanted to do and was allowed to do we're totally and utterly different. My parents were close minded and unapproachable. I was alone and lonely with no one else like me.

I felt like I had to give up my identity to fit in with the masses. There were two boxes, boy and girl, and if you didn't fit into those boxes easily then you were ignored as a "statistical anomaly". I felt that I couldn’t be me, ever, not even in my own head. I would day dream about the ability to be me, feeling at that time that it would never happen. 

I was given other peoples expectations and was demanded to achieve them for fear of disappointment, which was never an option with my upbringing... I studied subjects that I didn’t like and forced myself to work at them day and night.

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