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125. What My Marriage Taught Me About Blaming Yourself


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I spent years in a marriage where I believed I was the problem. Not organized enough. Not remembering the right things. Not meeting some invisible standard no matter how hard I tried. I went to bed apologizing and woke up promising to do better. And it was never enough.

It took me a long time to realize: I was never going to be "enough" inside that system. Because the system wasn't designed for me to succeed. It was designed for me to keep trying.

I see the exact same pattern in entrepreneurs every day. Brilliant, capable women who are working harder than anyone around them and still going home feeling like they're falling short. Blaming themselves for chaos that isn't their fault.

In this episode, I'm sharing what my marriage taught me about why your business feels so hard, the three lies overwhelmed entrepreneurs tell themselves on repeat, and a quick diagnostic you can run on any fire in your business to prove to yourself that the problem is structural, not personal.

If you've been carrying the weight of "what's wrong with me," put it down. This one's for you.

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The Create Your Day PodcastBy Jenn Cody | Productivity & Systems for Entrepreneurs