Leadership in a Nutshell

126. Are You Talking Yourself To Death?


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Welcome back to Leadership in a Nutshell with Kenny Chapman, Episode 126! Have you ever talked yourself into failure? Most would have denied this but subconsciously most may be running a program that is utilizing words that are talking themselves into it, take time to pause and listen to this episode as this will change your life.

 

Highlights:

 

[00:05 - 06:56] Are You Talking Yourself Into Death?

  • The key to having a successful relationship is having a value proposition that is specific to the relationship.
  • Lifetime relationships can be transformative but are not always chosen.
  • Transactional relationships are beneficial, but they eventually run their course.
  • A transformational relationship is one where both parties are evolving and sharing what they're learning together.

 

[06:56 - 13:08] Things to Avoid 

  • People often talk themselves into failure, poverty, and pain.
  • To avoid this, it is important to be aware of the words that you use and to check them against your goals.
  • This can be done by being honest with yourself and checking your thoughts against your goals.

 

[13:08 - 23:40] Are You Running Around Like A Chicken With Your Head Cut Off?

  • Be mindful of how busy, important, and crazy things are for you right now and how this can lead to self-talk death.
  • Check-in with yourself regularly to make sure you're not talking yourself to death.
  • Have a plan for how you want your life to be and stick to it.
  • Believe that what you're saying is true and that it's possible to have a great year even if things are tough at first.
  • Heighten your awareness
  • Just listen to what you are saying
  • Release it quickly when you do say something that doesn't resonate with you.

 

[23:41 - 24:25]Closing Segment

  • Final words

 

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“Everything in your life has to do with your words because words are beliefs.” - Kenny Chapman

 

 

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