The Socially Delightful Podcast

13. "Am I the a**hole for expecting them to ask better questions to get to know me?" and The Art of Conversation


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In this episode of the Socially Delightful Podcast, Jewel explores the art of conversation and addresses a listener's question about feeling unseen in family interactions. She delves into the complexities of social dynamics and offers practical advice for those struggling to feel heard and valued in conversations.

Jewel begins by unpacking a listener's frustration with her family-in-law, who seem disinterested in getting to know her. She emphasizes the importance of self-nurturing and recognizing one's own worth, while also considering the broader context of group dynamics. The episode offers strategies for communicating needs effectively and creating opportunities for more meaningful interactions.

The discussion then shifts to the broader topic of conversation skills. Jewel explains the concept of speech accommodation and its role in building rapport. She also highlights common conversation pitfalls like interrupting, story-topping, and bright-siding, providing listeners with tools to recognize and address these behaviors.

Throughout the episode, Jewel underscores the power of vulnerability and reciprocity in fostering genuine connections. She shares practical frameworks for initiating and maintaining engaging conversations, empowering listeners to create more fulfilling social experiences.

Tune in for an insightful exploration of conversation dynamics, filled with actionable tips to help you feel more seen, heard, and connected in your social interactions. Whether you're navigating family gatherings or seeking to improve your overall communication skills, this episode offers valuable guidance for becoming more socially delighted.

In this episode:

13:26 Seeing and Nurturing Oneself

22:17 Communicating Desires and Getting Needs Met

30:16 The Art and Science of Conversation

36:33 The Power of Attention in Conversation

39:23 Breaking Bad Conversation Habits

43:30 Communicating Your Needs in a Conversation

51:12 Creating a Successful Dialogue: Asking Questions and Sharing Stories

58:02 Embracing Social Imperfection and Offering Grace

01:04:40 Gratitude and Engagement

If you are new here, WELCOME! The Socially Delight-full Podcast is an edu-tainment podcast created for the big-hearted girlies who want to not just feel more confident but DELIGHT in themselves, delight in socializing and other people, and create delightful friendships and relationships. We are on a mission to create a culture of connection in our modern world, and to more DAMSELS LIVING IN SOCIAL DELIGHT.

Your host Jewel (from @ConnectionWithJewel) is a future therapist, overly certified coach, and human-connection obsessed, imperfect human. Jewel has helped 65+ people through her one-on-one program, and is now going to be helping YOU through her podcast! If you want Jewel’s help becoming your most socially delighted self, check out her one-on-one program, group program, retreats and MORE at www.connectionwithjewel.com!

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