Watch Your Love Bloom

13) Navigating Conflict in Marriage


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If you have a pulse, then you've probably been upset, disappointed, or angry about something before.  What happens when your spouse triggers your frustration, or vice versa? In this episode, we discuss conflict resolution within marriage.  At some point in time, you will disagree with your spouse, and that is okay.  In many ways, the health of your marriage depends on how you prevent, navigate, and resolve tension.  Throughout our conversation, we want you to consider a few things: 

  • How have YOU historically navigated conflict in other areas of life?

  • When disagreeing with your spouse, do you just wanna be right or re-aligned?

  • Both you and your spouse should feel seen, heard, & understood by the end of conflict.

  • Arguing can be healthy, when done respectfully and aims to reach consensus.

  • If you love interactive personal development like Breanne, then these might be great for you:

    • Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts (workbook/program)

      • https://www.symbis.com/couples/

      • Preparing for Marriage (workbook)

        • https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/preparing-for-marriage-dennis-rainey/1100337834

        • If you’re a nerd like Darien, then you’ll love these:

          • Emotional intelligence and marital conflict

            • https://journals.kmanpub.com/index.php/jprfc/article/download/521/2324

            • Theory of Brain Complexity and Marital Behavior

              • https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/human-neuroscience/articles/10.3389/fnhum.2023.1050164/full

              • Question of the Episode:

                To all of the lovers and friends, what is one conflict resolution tip from this episode that resonated with you the most and why?

                If you're tuning in through Spotify mobile, then you can answer the question directly in the comment section.  You can also DM your answer to ⁠⁠@breannerenee__⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram.

                We'd love to hear your thoughts!

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                Watch Your Love BloomBy Breanne and Darien Dixon