I can't tell you how many times I've talked to divorced women who told me that everything was great with her ex...until she got married. Turns out that it wasn't "marriage" that was the problem; it was that she didn't really get to discover whether she was compatible with her husband until AFTER they tied the knot. Join me for this New York Times-inspired Love U Podcast on what you MUST figure out about your boyfriend before he becomes your husband.