Have you ever experienced being mortified and thinking how can I live through this and years later you find out nobody really noticed or cared?

Sometimes we loose loved ones.  We don’t ever have to forget them we are not designed to forget people.  Remembering, memories, grieving are all natural.  We may have our memories and then we create new memories and bring out the old ones when we need to.  Life keeps happening and sometimes the hurt lessons.  No we are not meant to stay stuck, so I do believe time heals almost everything