I want to be courageous. I want to be resilient. I think that's important. I want to be empathetic as well, like I just still want to be able to have a heart. I want to be long suffering and you actually have all these attributes. Well, how do you how do you gain strength? By being challenged? How do you gain empathy? You gain empathy by walking in somebody else's shoes. You know what the experience is like, you know what the challenge is like.