We all process things differently. Most of us fall into one of two categories: we either talk to think or we think before we talk.
There’s no wrong way or right way to go about it, we just process things differently. Some of us think out loud and some of us think internally before we talk.
I’m the latter. I tend to think before I speak and if you’re the same, you may not see as much of a benefit to sharing your ideas or plans with other people.
People who think out loud often use other people as a sounding board for their ideas and it’s a way of processing the things that are going on in their mind.
If you process internally, you may not be as naturally inclined to share ideas or to think out loud. When you’re in your own bubble, you feel like you’ve thought through everything conclusively.
You’re exhaustive in your thinking and no one else can change your mind, but people can spark a new idea by giving you fresh perspective.