In this video/podcast, I talk about the need for men and women (especially women) to trust their gut feelings when it comes to red flags. This is an important episode… you’re not going to want to miss this one.

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Excerpt:

I had a really awesome call the other day with a young woman who was talking about a relationship she'd recently gotten out of. And one thing stuck out to me that I really want to talk about. And she brought up the fact that she noticed a lot of red flags early on with the guy that she ended up, you know, breaking up with. But, you know, she kind of overlooked them thinking, well, she didn't wanna make a big deal out of it. Maybe it wasn't such a big deal, you know, things like that. Now, this is really normal. We all do this to a point. We like to overlook, you know, potential red flags and people that we like, people that we're attracted to. And that's reasonable, like, you know, that's it's understandable that we would want to do that, because we want to have good relationships, we don't want to make a big deal out of it. We don't want to make things weird, but they don't have to be right.

Here's the thing.

This is what's really, really crucial to understand about this, you have come from a long, unbroken line of evolutionary successes. Think about this, every single one of your evolutionary ancestors successfully navigated the dating marketplace, created offspring, and got at least one of those offspring, your next ancestor, down the line to adulthood successful, right? That is a lot of success. And a lot of adaptive evolutionary habits, and skills, like skills, skills is probably the wrong word. Adaptive evolutionary instincts passed down, that we make use of things like our emotions, things like our reactions to things.