If you’ve ever asked, “How much should we spend on flowers?” or “What’s the average cost for a DJ?” — you might be planning your wedding backwards.

In this episode, I’m breaking down one of the biggest (and most common) mistakes couples make when planning their wedding — starting with other people’s numbers instead of their own. I’ll walk you through how to set your budget the right way, what to do before you book your venue, and how to make sure your spending actually aligns with your priorities.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

-Why crowdsourcing budget advice from Facebook or Reddit can backfire

-The three steps to build a realistic, personalized wedding budget

-How to talk with family about financial contributions (without awkwardness)

-A real story from a couple who learned the hard way

If you’re ready to stop guessing what’s “normal” and start planning with confidence, this one’s for you.

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