Good Girl Deprogramming

14 - Deprogramming from Trust with Michelle Minnikin


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Episode 14 - Deprogramming from Trust with Michelle Minnikin

In this episode of the Good Girl Deprogramming podcast, Michelle Minnikin takes us on a deep dive into Chapter 3 of her book, Good Girl Deprogramming, titled “Establishing Trust: We’ve Got Your Best Interests at Heart.”

With a powerful quote from Stephen King — “The trust of the innocent is the liar’s most useful tool” — Michelle sets the stage for a critical exploration of trust. While trust is essential for human connection, it can be weaponised to control and manipulate, particularly for women taught to “trust the grown-ups” in their lives. This conditioning leaves us vulnerable to manipulation, self-doubt, and a silenced inner voice.

In this episode, Michelle unpacks the five key steps to deprogram from this “blind trust” and embrace critical thinking — a vital skill for reclaiming our power and agency.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why Trust Can Be Dangerous: How society conditions women to trust blindly — and how this conditioning keeps us small, compliant, and easy to control.

  • The Role of Critical Thinking: Why critical thinking is essential for deprogramming from Good Girl Conditioning and how it helps us resist manipulation.

  • The Five Steps to Deprogramming Trust:

    • Don’t believe everything you’re told — Learn to question authority and the motives behind the information you consume.

    • Don’t believe everything you think — Discover how biases, societal narratives, and your own brain can mislead you.

    • Ask better questions — Embrace your inner 5-year-old and use curiosity to challenge assumptions and dig deeper.

    • Listen to perspectives you disagree with — Why staying in an echo chamber is dangerous and how to gain valuable new perspectives.

    • Question your own thinking — Reflect on your beliefs, challenge them, and be open to change.

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      What’s one area of your life where you’re ready to question the status quo? Send Michelle a message or tag her on social media with your thoughts!

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      Good Girl DeprogrammingBy Michelle Minnikin