Nursing the System

14: When Personal and Professional Goals Collide: Building a Life That Aligns


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šŸŽ™ Episode Overview


In this deeply personal episode, I share how an unexpected pull toward living in the Netherlands challenged my carefully planned life path—and what that taught me about navigating vision shifts. Whether you're feeling a tug toward something new or wrestling with seemingly conflicting goals, this episode offers a framework for aligning your shifting vision with your life and career.


šŸ”‘ In This Episode, You'll Learn


  • How to recognize and sit with the discomfort of a shifting vision instead of immediately trying to "fix" it
  • A practical framework for integrating seemingly conflicting personal and professional goals
  • Why "irrational" pulls toward new directions might hold important clues about your future path
  • How to take small, exploratory steps toward a new vision while maintaining your current commitments


🧠 Key Ideas to Take With You


  • Your vision naturally evolves—this isn't a failure of planning but an invitation to grow
  • Being stuck is always a feeling, never a fact. It's an invitation to think differently about your situation
  • Being a changemaker isn't about becoming a strategic robot. It's about asking: Who do I want to be? What do I love to do? And how can I integrate that into my life?
  • Clarity comes from action, not endless analysis


šŸŽ§ How to Get the Most Out of This Episode


Take time to reflect on your own experiences with shifting visions or conflicting goals as you listen. Consider grabbing a journal to work through the reflection prompts shared in the episode, especially if you're currently feeling a "tug" toward something new in your life or career.


šŸ› ļø Practical Actions You Can Take


  1. Sit with the discomfort: Journal about where you're feeling a "tug" toward something new or unexpected
  2. Map your intersections: Write down your seemingly conflicting goals side by side and look for creative overlaps
  3. Take small, exploratory steps: Choose one low-stakes way to explore your new vision this week
  4. Ask yourself: "What parts of my current life feel out of alignment? What is this new vision trying to tell me about who I'm becoming?"


šŸ“£ Special Announcements


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šŸ“² Call to Action


  • Share this episode with someone wrestling with a shifting vision
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šŸ‘‰ Resources Mentioned
  • Book: "Curbing Trafficā€ by Melissa and Chris Bruntlett
  • Claire's Systems Thinking Reading List
  • Not Just Bikes YouTube Channel
  • Change Maker Essentials Program
  • Innovative Career Coaching Program
  • Instagram
  • Systems Sunday Newsletter
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Nursing the SystemBy Claire Phillips, DNP RN