Across 3 decades, Dee Tozer’s has helped couples find relief from heartache and get back to love in a timely and speedy way. She is a master relationship therapist that has sought out teachings from the great world experts in Couples Therapy. This has equipped her to now pivot to an effective coaching and mentoring approach to guiding couples towards a sustainable long-lasting togetherness. Having guided more than 4,700 couples, over 90% of her couples have reported a positive outcome and she has seen what embracing the joy of camaraderie does to revitalize a marriage.

Let’s listen to learn from Dee Tozer on how to manage conflicts in a relationship. She goes over cheating, money stresses and relational well-being. 

Golden Nuggets From This Episode:

✨ “Parents play a big relationship and it affects your children. This is how we're shaped us in our childhood.”

✨ “Having good dynamics in the household is really key for everyone.”

✨ “The success in our lives is determined by the quality in our relationship or the success in our relationship.”

✨ “Recognize when the shift of energy has changed in the relationship and name it.”

✨ “Question in a nice way rather than saying 'I feel'. So when you say 'I feel', you will not get a good response.”

✨ “If it feels like you're being pushed away, we need to draw the boundary for the other person so they know they're pushing you away because they may not know.”

✨ “If we react, we are pushing the other person away 99% of the time. Instead of reacting, reassurance if that's predominantly the way of interaction you have, you will develop resilience around other little random reactions.”

✨ “We all need to feel desirable if we wanna have an intimate relationship with anybody.”

✨ “Recovery is aligning and letting go of all of the hurts and the pain that happened. Accept and move on.”

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Timestamps from episode:

02:45   How did she get into her work

05:56   The main problems she sees in relationships with the couples she has

09:03   Talks about radical responsibility

10:09   How to communicate so people don’t get defensive

13:04   How she helps people integrate boundaries in their lives

16:01   The three Rs for saying emotionally balance in these times

17:48   Talks about resentment

20:00   How Dee helps people vocalize things as soon as they start feeling it instead of letting it build-up

22:59   Key elements to help rescue couples that are in crisis

25:40   How Dee helps couples that have been through cheating

30:00   Another crazy story she helped repair from a wild story

31:42   How she  helped couples who lose intimacy

34:35   Talks about money issues of couples