This week, I’m joined by Amelia, who shares the story of her and Jack’s incredible marquee wedding in Mangawhai, set on private property with nearly 200 guests, beautiful styling, and a day that didn’t exactly go to plan but ended up being even better because of it.

 

We chat about: 

💜 How they met and why you shouldn’t write off a bad first date

💜 A dreamy Fiji proposal, featuring a stray cat named Chris

💜 Planning a marquee wedding from scratch on private property

💜 What it’s really like hosting a wedding with nearly 200 guests

💜 Why great food, drinks, and guest experience were top priorities

💜 The reality of things not going to plan, rain, humidity, and last minute changes

💜 Pivoting the ceremony on the day and embracing the chaos

💜 Dress shopping with Hera Couture and finding something that actually fits and flatters

💜 The magic of having all your favourite people in one place

💜 Letting go of the small details and focusing on what actually matters

 

…and so much more!

 

Follow Amelia (Melie): @melies_kitchen

 

Let me know what you think of this episode!

 

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Vendors:

Photographer: @kerynsweeneyphotographer

On the Day Coordinator: @sophpol

Dress: @heracouture

Second Dress: @lovejamesstore & @re_______studio

Suit: @workingstylenz

Flowers: @handsinthedirt_

Food: @sourcekitchennz

Hire & Marquee: @lucyseventhire

Drinks: @drinkalba @moabeer & @eurovintage_nz

Makeup: @rae_makeup

Hair: @penton.andco 

Cake: @mor__bakery

Stationery: @broganscottstudio

Rings: @thevillagegoldsmith

Venue: Private Property

Celebrant: @nzcelebrant

 

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