In this conversation, Jonathan and Scott discuss their recent break from podcasting, the challenges of moving, and the importance of positive self-talk. They then transition into a discussion on communication in marriage, emphasizing the need for a soft startup and small talk to build intimacy and understanding. The conversation explores the topic of automatic assumptions and their impact on relationships. It emphasizes the importance of avoiding automatic assumptions and instead giving the benefit of the doubt to our partners. The conversation also delves into conflict resolution, highlighting the need for clear communication, active listening, and mutual understanding. The concept of influence in a relationship is discussed, emphasizing the importance of feeling included and having a say in decisions.