In this episode, Becky Brouwer sits down with her good friend and neighbor Gretchen Hymas to talk family dynamics, raising independent children, and navigating grief after the loss of a child. Gretchen shares hard-won wisdom on acceptance, trust, and what truly matters in motherhood.

Meet Gretchen Hymas: Gretchen is spunky, a little irreverent, and deeply spiritual. Her quirky humor and fierce loyalty to family make her one of a kind. The way she accepts reality and keeps moving forward is what makes her Sendy. I am grateful to know her — and you will be too.

What You'll Hear:

• Being Sendy means trying new things and embracing adventure
• Growing up in a large family brings unique challenges and gifts
• Praising effort over outcome shapes resilient kids
• Grief can clarify what truly matters
• Open communication and trust are the foundation of strong parent-child relationships
• It's never too late to start over

Chapters: 00:00 Introduction

02:19 Family Dynamics and Upbringing

07:21 Parenting Philosophy and Challenges

10:57 Forming Relationships of Trust

12:50 Teaching Effort Over Outcome

15:37 Reflections on Life and Legacy

20:39 When a Child Passes Away

28:46 On Being a Grandparent

32:32 Navigating Judgment and Expectations

38:33 Learning to Listen and Let Go

42:54 The Things That Matter Most

48:49 Rapid Fire Questions

Resources Found Here:

15. Fierce Family Love and the Ministry of Just Showing Up

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