On today's episode, Ashley deconstructs the toxicity around martyrdom in evangelical theology and how pastors use martyrdom to manipulate people into staying in toxic relationships. At the end of the episode, Ashley recommended Melody Beattie's book "The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations for Codependency." Be sure to check out your own copy of the devotional and to join Ashley each week for another episode of the Unlearning Podcast. You can sign up for Ashley's newsletter at ashleylhengst.com and you  can connect with Ashley on Instagram and Twitter @ashleylhengst.