April 29, 2019, I decided to message Robin Sharma and invite him to come to serve you on my podcast. He politely said, "not right now". About a year later, I messaged him again. The answer: "not right now". A year later, "Ryan, let's set something up, here is my assistant's info." I bring this up because when you want something in life, I mean truly want it…..you have to DEMAND it! I really wanted to have a conversation with someone I call a trailblazer, world leader, thought leader, and humanitarian. Well, the time has come! This conversation provokes the inner voice of doubt that so desperately wants to be overcome by your voice of genius. This conversation also provokes the fear of rejection inside you that holds you back from experiencing some of life's true riches and joys. This conversation challenges you to step into your discomfort know that it is growth in wolf's clothing. This conversation helps you UPGRADE your life personally and professionally! 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Show Notes: 01:00 – Robin Sharma Intro 02:00 – Expect the ungrateful reference to chapter 30 of Everyday Hero 03:25 – Casual, intimate, and green room of your relationships 04:15 – Joy is the GPS, only doing work that fuels your joy 04:45 – If you have 3 great friends, you are fortunate 05:00 – Joy is the only metric that matters in life 05:56 – Pg 28, clarity breeds mastery 06:15 – Pressures of old school and culture 06:49 – Should we pick? Is it and/or? How do we pick? (Intelligent question) 07:55 – what makes mastery is to politely and consistently say NO 09:25 – Old part of you must experience a crucifixion so the new you can experience a resurrection 10:00 – growth coming to get you in wolf's clothing 11:25 – how do we teach leadership to our children from an early age 11:49 – born into genius and resigned into mediocrity 12:15 – honor your pirate freakish nature, that is where your nature is 13:14 – world starts programming you into mediocrity 14:16 – a question I have never been asked ( how does it feel to have people hold your soul in their hands) 16:24 – "I am no guru, I am very much human" 17:19 – that which is most personal, is almost universal 18:01 – we all wear social masks 18:12 – everyone seems normal until you get to know them 19:30 – not just mindset, 4 interior empires you need to study 20:36 – how do you balance being a dad with being a worldly figure 21:20 – your business and family are nothing more than having conversations 22:50 – soulful currency account, calibrating success and happiness 23:47 – weekly design system methodology worksheet in everyday hero manifesto 24:18 – success without soulfulness is a very empty victory 27:00 – how do we stay calm and not react in everyday ANNOYING situations like Robin Sharma? (INTELLIGENT QUESTION) (DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING KIND AND WEAK) (PICK YOUR BATTLES) 28:50 – If it is hysterical, it is historical (Road rage example) 30:05 – before you seek revenge, it is best to dig two graves 30:10 – Ryan calls Robin Sharma a gracious beast 31:40 – REJECTION, how to deal with it and why YOU ARE MISSING OUT ON LIFE 33:35 – CONNOR MCGREGOR REJECTION Story 35:20 – discomfort is growth in wolf's clothing (MUST LISTEN) 37:16 – legends go to the places that terrify them and confront it 38:01 – world-class comes from doing difficult things (Start the difficult business that people don't want to do!) 40:00 – what makes someone happy or miserable after retirement 41:00 – Robins father's mantra 41:50 – Trauma is a teacher 43:00 – Nelson Mandela story ( Humble Servant ) 43:36 – The tongues of prosperity 44:00 – LIVE while you are ALIVE! 44:12 – Building BRAND & Why your phone is costing you your fortune ( GREAT QUESTION ) 45:38 – The importance of scheduling and naming your days 47:25 – Ryan Asks Robin what he can do for him? →→→ CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ←←← ▶︎ INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/RyanHoltz1 ▶︎ TIKTOK | https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8CF6LKD/ ▶︎ YOUTUBE | https://www.youtube.com/ryanholtz ▶︎ TWITTER | https://twitter.com/ryanholtz1 ▶︎ SNAPCHAT | https://snapchat.com/add/ryanholtz1 ▶︎ LINKEDIN | https://www.linkedin.com/in/rholtz ▶︎ FACEBOOK | https://www.facebook.com/RyanPHoltz/ ▶︎ ITUNES | https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-ryan-holtz-show/id1167195878?mt=2 ▶︎ WEBSITE | https://ryanholtz.ca/ ▶︎ SPOTIFY | https://open.spotify.com/show/2rLdYsJKw5Vb6yoMoV2jhw?si=uxDfBei9SOWbLRcTU50T0Q