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#155 Should You Discuss Relationship History On The First Date?


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In this episode, I talk about whether or not you should discuss relationship history on the first date. I also talk about how to go about it, and give some tips for what NOT to do. You won’t want to miss this one!

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All right, today, we're talking about a pretty specific question, should you discuss relationship history on the first date? And this is actually prompted by a question that came out of my mastermind tribe. And so it was a very good question. I wanted to make an episode addressing this, it's pretty important thing. Now, I am of the opinion. And there are different opinions on this, I'm pretty sure. But I'm of the pretty specific opinion that relationship history is a very good thing to discuss on the first date. Now when I say that, I don't mean that you have to grill someone or interrogate someone necessarily. However, it is reasonable to want to know, you know, what kind of relationship has the person has had? What I'll often say, you know, on a first date is I'll say something like, so tell me about your, your dating history? Like what is your dating life been like? Or I might say? So have you been in any, you know, long term relationships? Tell me about it. You know, I'll just kind of casually mention it. And it makes sense to do so because you want to learn about this person. Now, there's a couple different questions that come up. When we talk about this, right. So on one hand, we could say yes, it's a good idea to talk about it. But on the other hand, it's important to kind of know the limits. I don't like to dig too deeply into this when I'm meeting someone for the first time. And I think that if people dig too deeply into it, like toward me, it's a little off-putting, right?

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