In this post, I talk about the importance of fixing your life problems if you want to maximize your attraction and actually succeed at creating the dating life of your dreams. 

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I see a lot of people trying to date to solve problems in their lives. Okay, so I see, I see women out here every day, whose lives are falling apart. And they are like desperate to find a guy who will help take care of them, right. So it's like they're trying to date to solve a problem. And I see so many guys out here.

I see so many guys who are out here dating because they're lonely because they don't love themselves because they don't have any confidence. And they want a woman to make them feel better about themselves. Right?

There are so many different things I could say about this, so many things men and women do. I see it all the time dating to try to solve a problem. And that's, that's actually a very understandable way to think of dating because there are a lot of great things that come from finding a good dating relationship. And so if you can do that, well, isn't it going to solve some problems for you? Well, he would. However, there's a problem with this. And the problem is that a lot of people aren't sorting out their lives before they tried to date. And that skews the dating process. Here's what I mean by that.

If you have someone who doesn't have any confidence, if you have someone who doesn't feel like they have anything to bring to the table, and they want a relationship to make them feel better about it, that's going to hurt their dating experience, because what's going to happen is they are going to end up getting into relationships with people who match with that energy, right. And perhaps they're going to match the people who are also trying to fix the problem with dating. And this is how you get dysfunctional relationships. You know, it's really important that we vet partners properly, but you can't vet partners properly. If your life isn't an order, or at least it becomes a lot more difficult to do that. It's not impossible, but it becomes a lot more difficult.