Have you ever had a holiday plan perfectly mapped out—only for your teen to say, “I don’t want to go,” leaving you spiralling with hurt, frustration, or panic?

If holiday changes from your teen leave you feeling rejected, disappointed, or unsure how to respond without escalating tension, this episode will show you exactly why those reactions happen—and how to navigate them with calm, clarity, and connection. Holidays don’t have to be a battle between their independence and your desire for family time.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to understand your emotional reactions without blaming yourself, why holiday conflict is typically about expectations rather than relationships, and how to use the 3-C method—Check-In, Clarify, Collaborate—to create holiday plans that honour both you and your teen.

Press play now to learn a simple three-step tool that will help you stay calm, reduce conflict, and build a more connected holiday season with your teen.

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This powerful podcast explores how  moms  and  parents  can navigate  anxiety,  overwhelm, and grief  while building resilience,  confidence, and emotional intelligence, offering tools for better communication, active listening, and setting healthy boundaries to foster trust, reduce yelling and punishment, de-escalate conflict and escalation, and strengthen relationships with teens  through empathy, calm, and lasting harmony.