Resource guarding is one of those behaviors that gets treated like it’s one simple problem with one simple fix.

Just add abundance.

Just countercondition it.

Just follow this protocol.

Except… it’s not that simple.

In this episode of Enrichment for the Real World, Emily is joined by Haylee Heisel to unpack why “guarding” is a label, and why treating it like a one-size-fits-all issue can make things worse.

We talk about:

• Why dumping a trash bag of tennis balls into a yard is not the same thing as creating security
• How pain, stress, attachment, hormones, neurochemistry, and environment all influence guarding behavior
• Why prescriptive formulas fall apart in real life
  
  

And what it actually looks like to take a descriptive, needs-based approach instead
From sanctuary dogs guarding light switches and metal buckets… to puppies guarding during heat cycles… to cases where angry voices were the real trigger, this episode is a deep dive into the messy, nuanced reality of behavior.

Because treating guarding isn’t about “the thing”, it’s about the why. When we slow down enough to find the why, the path forward gets clearer.

TLDL (too long, didn’t listen): 3 Key Takeaways 

1️⃣ “Guarding” is a label, not a diagnosis - Many different behaviors get lumped under resource guarding, and they can happen for completely different reasons. If you treat them all the same, you’ll miss the actual unmet need driving the behavior.

2️⃣ Abundance is not the same thing as security - Meeting needs absolutely matters. But more stuff doesn’t automatically equal safety. Pain, stress, attachment history, hormones, environment, and neurochemistry can all fuel guarding in ways that extra resources won’t fix.

3️⃣ Prescriptive formulas break down while descriptive thinking holds up -  Instead of “if guarding, then do X,” ask: What’s driving this? What changed? What does this individual need right now? When you treat the root cause, guarding often shifts.

For the full episode show notes, including the resources mentioned in this episode, go here.

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