You think you're arguing about tone. Texts. Dishes. Toothpaste. Toilet seats! ETC!
But you're not. You're arguing from 1990.
You're not fighting with your partner - you're reenacting unfinished grief.

This episode breaks the cycle. We’re pulling the curtain back on reenactment: the unconscious loop where your nervous system confuses the present for the past, and your childhood coping strategies take the wheel.

You'll learn:

• Why you keep having the same fight with different people

• What your body does when it mistakes conflict for danger

• How over-functioning, shutdown, fawning, and rage are all trauma roles - not personality traits

• The real reason you feel more lonely after the argument than before it started

• How to finally interrupt the cycle and come back to the adult self who can choose something new

Whether you're in a relationship or alone and spiralling, this episode is a clean slice through illusion - and a doorway to freedom.

You’re not broken. You’re patterned. But the loop ends with you.

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All views expressed are personal, based on clinical experience, psychoanalytic theory, and professional reflection. They do not constitute individual psychological assessment or advice. Any resemblance to real-life clients is coincidental; examples are complete fiction.

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All views expressed are personal, based on experience, psychoanalytic theory, and professional reflection. They do not constitute individual psychological assessment or advice. Any resemblance to real-life clients is coincidental; examples are complete fiction.

Please use discretion and self-responsibility when engaging with content that may evoke strong emotional or psychological responses. By listening, you agree to hold the host harmless from any liability arising from the use or interpretation of content presented.