LIFE Beyond Aphasia

#161 Aphasia Caregiving and the Hidden Guilt Spiral


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She looked angry. He pulled back. Later, he realized—it wasn’t anger at all. It was aphasia.


If you’ve ever replayed a hard moment thinking, “I should’ve been more patient, I should know what to say by now”—this episode is for you. The guilt spiral is real. But what if the story you’re telling yourself isn’t the real one?

  • Why guilt and self-blame show up so quickly in caregiving
  • The hidden difference between acting as “the judge” vs. “the detective”
  • How the ACE filter (Aphasia, Cognition, Emotion) changes everything
  • Why understanding your partner’s aphasia and cognition is essential to breaking free of the spiral
  • A gentle reframe: mistakes aren’t failures—they’re clues

  • If this hits home, take the free Care Partner Compass. It shows you where you are right now and points to what can actually make communication and connection feel lighter.
    https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/f/care-partner-compass


    More Resources:
    “Are you Lisa or Elena? https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/f/lisa-or-elena”
    “Speak up for yourself after stroke—Take It Back: https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/f/take-it-back”
    “Feel stuck? This will remind you why progress is still possible: https://dolifespeechpathology.com/f/neuroplasticity”
    “Care partner resources: https://lifeaphasiaacademy.co/care-partner-resources”
    “Explore therapy options: https://dolifespeechpathology.com”
    “Join our private support community: https://dolifespeechpathology.co/collective”
    “Subscribe for new episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@LIFESpeechPathology/videos”
    “Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/listen-for-life-aphasia-podcast/id1621948384


    You’re not failing. You’re learning the new rules.

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