We often hear this advice given to spouses, "Huwag mong ibigay lahat!" It is framed as a survival tool or a form of empowerment. "Magtabi ka para sa sarili mo." is aimed at protecting the spouses, especially the one who isn’t the breadwinner, in case of a broken relationship. But whilethese pieces of advice may have noble intentions of protection, we must ask this question: Does this secrecy actually serve a healthy, high-FQ partnership, or is it a sign of a shaky foundation? Watch this.