First of All

#163 - Evolving Beauty Standards with David Yi (Very Good Light)


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Beauty can be such a fun way to channel your self-expression, try new products/personas/looks, practice self-care, and get in touch with your innermost confidence. It can also be overwhelming and painful trying to keep up with societal standards that feel rigid, unattainable, and downright dehumanizing at times. In this week's episode, Minji sits down with David Yi, a beauty expert and passionate advocate of examining and redefining beauty as a concept, practice, and culture. David has spent most of his life breaking down stigmas and stereotypes by asking “SAYS WHO?” through his work as a journalist, his industry-disrupting beauty products and his new book Pretty Boys. Together they go beyond skin-deep in their discussion about what beliefs and paradigms they've subscribed to and how that impacted their sense of self. Both host and guest question ideas and gatekeepers, and how we can move forward being seen and empowered for who we truly are at every age, gender, and identity we embody.

Links: 

https://www.instagram.com/seoulcialite/
https://verygoodlight.com/
https://bookshop.org/books/pretty-boys-legendary-icons-who-redefined-beauty-and-how-to-glow-up-too/9780358410683
https://asianpacificfilmexperience.com/

 

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▫️ Music featured in this episode include "Uzutrap" by Uzuhan and “A Thousand Cuts” by Ruby Ibarra
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Produced by @marvinyueh & @AnnaSun
Supported by @JulianaDeer

 

00:00:00 - Ways to support the pod 
00:00:30 - Intro’ing the topic + guest 
00:05:51 - How David introduces himself
00:07:24 - Has David considered becoming an accountant?
00:09:25 - The Han is very potent  
00:11:00 - Minji’s contrasting childhood
00:13:25 - To feel seen in media
00:16:54 - The standard of beauty in America
00:19:01 - David never wanted to feel beautiful
00:21:02 - “Says Who?” = the essence of David and Minji
00:25:21 - Being the only Asian in the room
00:31:52 - Hire someone who can do Asian eyes and Asian hair, damnit! 
00:34:56 - Beauty is preserving your essence
00:36:55 - BREAK - [Books and Boba Podcast]
00:39:12 - How Very Good Light got started 
00:41:18 - Pretty Boys is a culmination of life’s work
00:43:57 - “Beauty” has been manufactured 
00:48:35 - What do you mean “feminine” v “masculine”? Get specific. 
00:51:12 - First memories of beauty 
00:58:23 - When your family pushes plastic surgery
01:07:59 - FOA Questions for our guests! 
01:09:51 - Outro + leave a 5*Star Review :D 
01:12:14 - [Modern Minorities Podcast]

 

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