I make a suggestion to optimize your approach to your relationships when misfortune hands you a challenge. (Obviously I approach this from a male perspective, but although in theory it can affect men and women in my experience the dietary aspect of this idea seems to stem almost exclusively from feminine sources. I recognize that imbalance but felt like an attempt to make it strictly gender neutral would make it sound inauthentic. Please share with me the masculine counterpart as you have observed it at [email protected]