Do you find yourself putting your significant other, your children, your friends, your co-workers before taking care of yourself?  Do you find you are saying yes to spending on someone else rather than yourself?  Do you try to please someone else at the expensive of your well being?  Do you buy the proper clothing and shoe wear you need to be comfortable and feel good about yourself or do you spend on the kids instead of you?  Do you feel guilty if you spend on yourself?