The Art of Approach Podcast

#17 - Creating mystery, having female friends, surrendering to intense emotion


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In this episode, we discuss various aspects of dating and the nuances of approaching women, underlining the crucial role of maintaining mystery and self-validation to keep the attraction alive. We talk about overcoming approach anxiety by advocating for incremental steps towards building self-confidence and the profound importance of engaging with and understanding our emotions, particularly in social settings. Emphasizing the significant benefits of having female friends, we explore how their insights can refine our dating strategies and help us understand the dating scene from a different perspective.


Additionally, we touch upon the necessity of presenting ourselves authentically in dating profiles and seeking constructive feedback. The conversation also navigates the delicate balance between pursuing romantic interests and personal goals, underscoring the importance of self-awareness and owning one's journey through the complexities of relationships.


00:00 Introduction to Coach Corey Wayne04:01The Importance of Mystery

04:52 Understanding Mystery

06:48 Finding Certainty in Yourself07:01Recognizing Temporary Emotions

07:38 Overexplaining and Neediness08:38Creating Mystery in Dating

09:43 Certainty and Insecurity10:05Dealing with Rejection

11:23 Finding Certainty Elsewhere

12:36 Recognizing Temporary Emotions

13:05 Understanding Anger and Emotions

13:43 The Pitfalls of Overexplaining

14:48 The Dangers of Overexplaining

15:47 Keeping Some Mystery

16:37 The Thrill of Leading

17:57 Acceptable Places to Approach Women

18:58 Approaching in Grocery Stores

19:37 Approaching with Short-lived Conversations

23:03 Being Respectful and Not Creepy

24:46 Best Places to Meet Women

26:10 Approaching Women in Coffee Shops

27:34 Approaching Women in Parking Lots

28:37 Strategies to overcome approach anxiety

38:40 Will's new relationship

49:14 Importance of female friends

51:38 The Influence of Others on Dating Profiles

54:46 A Date with an Incredibly Beautiful Woman

56:28 Psychic Sexual Communication

57:43 Mixed Signals and Uncertainty

01:00:44 Struggling with Business and Dating

01:03:51 Balancing Business and Personal Life

01:08:47 Owning Your Circumstances

01:12:47 Dealing with Adversity and Maintaining Groundedness

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The Art of Approach PodcastBy Tim Bray and Will Mulvaney