Isaiah 53:6 - "All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the Lord hath laid on him the iniquity of us all."
The first destructive natural tendency is a sinful reaction when things don't go our way.
Emotional discomfort results from sinful reactions to things that don't go our way. It is especially difficult to make a Godly response when our way is right and biblical and we still don't get it.