I remember the first time I actually had the courage to meet another AB/DL in real life, and it was surreal! But I also do know that not every meeting is going to be the same. So if you're really curious to meet other AB/DLs in the community, here's Doug to share with us how to spot the red flags, how to vet people, and of course, how to not scare them off!   Resources mentioned in this episode: thelittlelounge.com/170 For additional content, exclusive rewards, and a community of like-minded people check out patreon.com/dreamalittle Music: http://www.bensound.com