As the world changes, so is the dynamic of how we create relationships. When it comes to the relationship between men and women, what worked for men before do not anymore work today. Women do not need men the way the society thinks they did. They are now more in charge of their choices and confidently seeking beyond what the world expects of them. Exploring into this changing relationship is Rob Kandell who gives a book reading of his book, unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Tackling Chapter 16, “How to Relate to Women?”, he gives men some pointers to men who wants to interact with the modern woman. He offers viewpoints on how to end the antagonistic war that men are currently fighting with women. Rob digs deep into where presence comes into play as well as confidence, vulnerability, desire, humor, and curiosity.