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#18-Solo-Is it bad to be chopped?

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In this episode, I talk about change and whether it’s okay to be ugly.

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The Alchemist, Paulo Coelho...

  • “God has prepared a path for everyone. You just need to follow the omens.”
  • “I see the world in terms of what I would like to see happen, not what actually does.”
  • A curious one; “When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”

    • Youtube Videos and Podcasts I liked!

    I tried to 'Cold Approach' 100 girls without any experience (Introvert vs Girls):
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMr1ddukSQ4&ab_channel=DylanMcKnight 
     
    I Tried Teaching an Awkward Virgin How to Cold Approach:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z7DIqN3KOo4&ab_channel=BenjaminSeda 
     
    How I'm dealing with wanting a gf while I'm still building myself…:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=03ZhMIzDqZI&ab_channel=JakPiggott 
     
    Simple cold approach: Introvert to Social Confidence in 5min:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efhstinc2Fo&ab_channel=CoachKyle 
     
    Cold Approach As A Daily Habit:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOwryGLERDY&ab_channel=SebJones 
     
    How To Believe You Are Worthy Of The Love you Desire Jillian Turecki:
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/6IYRDOyhtuGmjYcv88Do4y?si=4eeed9a85bfa41a2 
     
    The Price of Lust | A Biblical Warning:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsUBvZbuXvU&ab_channel=Goded 
     
    I spent $20,000 on OnlyFans. (my addiction):
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ptXXG1wttk&ab_channel=DylanMcKnight 
     
    The Search for Self-Love with podcaster Lewis Howes:
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/69S9mLrITgkyIUsEGqrhQH?si=60dd41a01e8d400a 
     
    Ep 561- Beautiful Things:
    https://open.spotify.com/episode/75uiVDrOjctrlqVOmdrzAp?si=3fbd8a1374af4945 

    00:00 Overcoming Anxiety to Start Recording

    01:10 Embracing Authenticity and Personal Growth
    02:26 Musical Inspirations and Confidence Boost
    04:19 Exploring Self-Image and Appearance
    05:58 Reflections on Confidence and Humor
    08:52 Being Normal/Infinity Stones Aura
    11:27 The Importance of Self-Reliance
    15:35 Understanding Attraction and Self-Worth
    23:21 Projection and Evolution
    51:16 Exploring New Experiences
    51:56 Therapist's Advice: Try New Things
    52:51 Balancing Honesty and Politeness
    55:37 Navigating Social Interactions
    56:25 Nutrition and Health Journey
    59:59 Understanding Psychological Suffering
    01:13:19 Childhood Insecurities and Growth
    01:22:23 The Quest for Authenticity
    01:34:00 Popularity and Self-Worth
    01:41:41 Cold Approaching Anxiety
    01:42:33 Romantic vs. Platonic Approaches
    01:43:34 Building Social Confidence
    01:45:29 The Summer 100 Challenge
    01:50:47 Navigating Awkward Interactions
    01:53:07 Finding a Job and Social Connections
    01:53:43 Self-Love and Authenticity
    02:07:29 Lust and Its Impact
    02:15:19 Final Thoughts and Reflections

    https://unswamped.podbean.com/e/18-solo-is-it-bad-to-be-chopped-unattractive-or-ugly 

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    UnswampedBy Ryan Hu