Having high standards isn't a bad thing, but sometimes we can merge having high standards into having unrealistic expectations. How can we differentiate between the two? How do we know if we have high standards or if we have unrealistic expectations for our future spouse? What should or shouldn't we include on our lists? What about non-negotiables?  In this episode, I discuss some of the differences between high standards and unrealistic expectations, also discussing "the list", which alludes to last week's episode.