I've always wanted to do an episode on arrangements. Yes, I am very touchy when it comes to sugar babying and arrangements because I have thoughts on the topic (one day there'll be an episode this, I promise) so when Emily Monroe popped into my feed, I was like, "it's time". Emily is a FSSWer based in NYC and has had a ton of experience when it comes to both semi-exclusive and exclusive arrangements. While it may be the ultimate goal to exclusive, Emily heeds on how this might not be a realistic approach and to prepare yourselves for when it might potentially end. We go into red flags, what to look out for, ensuring that you have days off and time blocks "for you", and more essential things to think about when considering any type of exclusivity.

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