The Lonely Clam

2. A Roomaiden's Tale


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In this Clam Slam episode of Season 2, I’m joined by my roommate Larissa for an unfiltered, Aries-powered conversation that dives into how certain aspects of feminism can be toxic, the dynamics of the male gaze, and the subtleties of dating in this climax—I mean climate (because let’s be honest, the mark is often missed). We chat about everything from heated email debates with property management to how subliminal messages helped Larissa meet an English prince. (Just kidding, but he was a gentleman with great hair.) Larissa also shares her journey into the tech world through videography, and how she broke into DJing. Our dynamic brings plenty of energy as we dive into self-love, relationship patterns, career growth, and more—all with raw honesty and humor.

00:00 Introduction and Warm-Up

00:07 Introducing Larissa: First Impressions

01:16 Larissa's Influence and Podcast Beginnings

02:06 Freedom of Speech and Controversial Topics

03:53  Harmonizing and Technical Setup

05:43 Who is Larissa?

06:44 Male Gaze and Feminine Dynamics

10:31 Modern Feminism and Gender Roles

19:50 Roommate Dynamics and Personal Growth

31:31 Subliminal Messages and Self-Worth

38:18 Self-Love and Avoiding Pedestals

39:26 Reciprocation in Relationships

39:43 Chasing and Attachment Styles

40:48 Therapy and Self-Help Resources

43:23 Cancel Culture and Social Dynamics

44:13 Modern Feminism and Equality

44:58 Recognizing Patterns in Relationships

46:50 Roommate Etiquette and Communication

56:15 Creating Opportunities and Career Growth

01:07:07 Utilizing AI and Cultivating Skills

01:11:38 Consistency and Overcoming Setbacks

01:13:39 Embracing the Process and Final Thoughts


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The Lonely ClamBy Adrianne Creek