A lot of people struggle with keeping up with Queer terminology, Allies and Queer people included. While “LGBTQ+” is a bit of a tongue twister, it’s cringe when someone says it wrong. When someone can say it right, it not only scores points, it signals they are a safe person.

I break down the evolution of the acronym, what it means, and why it’s not perfect. I also discuss why it’s so important to be able to confidently say “LGBTQ+” and give helpful ways to practice saying it until it rolls off the tongue.